
And I don’t know
about you but I’m pleased about that, pray isn’t the easiest thing in the world. When it comes to prayer I’m still on
my learners licence. In fact I really
identify with what NT Wright has to say about prayer, “At its lowest Prayer is
shouting into the void on the off chance there maybe someone out there listening.
At its Highest Point prayer merges into love, as the presence of God becomes so
real that we pass beyond words and into a sense of God’s reality, generosity, delight and grace. For most Christians,
most of the time it takes place between those two extremes, to be fair for many
people it is not just a mystery but a puzzle.”

In this prayer that Jesus teaches his disciples he helps
untangle that puzzle. He is not just giving words to say, a formula that we
know by heart, and can rattle off without thinking, rather he is giving us a
framework that guides our prayer life and the focus of our hearts. He puts some
very deep profound spiritual truth not into magical words like an abracabra, or
religious jargon, some mumbo jumbo, but into straight forward everyday
language.
William Barkley has a very helpful summary
of the Lord’s Prayer that shows us how this simply but far from shallow prayer
encapsulates the whole of life and brings it before God. How it sets the
priorities for communication between humanity and God.
He says the first three
clauses of this prayer stop prayer from becoming self-centered, it may come as
a surprise to you but we are not the centre of the universe. They focus us on
what is at the centre of Prayer… that is that prayer is about God. “Hallowed be
your name”, “Your kingdom come”, “Your will be done”… Focuses us first and
foremost on God. We can so easily get caught up in what we want and what we
need, what we have to say or even what we think God should do… and we forget
that God is wanting to speak, that God has spoken, that he is the one who
Jeremiah tells us is working out his plans and purposes, for our good.

Then in its last three petitions we find a comprehensive
list of our needs in life. Our daily bread that God the creator would provide
our basic needs, forgive us our sins, that God our saviour would deal with the
wrongs and pains of our past, lead us not into times of trail and deliver us from evil, that our
future welfare would be in the hands of God our comforter and guide. A journey
to the heart of prayer it a journey to knowing and trusting God with the whole
of our life, trusting the God we know through Jesus Christ.

Today we are focusing on the first clause
of this prayer that ties all of it together: “Our Father in heaven.” It has
been said that the whole of the Lord’s Prayer, with its focus on seeing God’s
name be honoured and God’s will being done and his reign being established on
earth and our putting our trust in God for all our lives could be summed up in
what it means to call God Father, and, in fact it has been said that the whole
of the Sermon on the Mount is Jesus explaining, what it means to call God
Father.
Jesus had started his teaching on prayer by saying “Don’t
keep babbling on like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of
their many words. Do not be like them, for your father knows what you need even
before you ask him therefore this then is how you should prayer… Our Father in
heaven”. The basis of our prayer life our communication with God, our life with
god. is not in having the right words to say so we can plicate an angry God, or
grab the attention of a disinterested distant deity, or say the right thing to
get what we want… it is based on the character of God and God’s relationship
with us. Our Journey to the heart of prayer is a journey to the father heart of
God.

Jesus invitation to call God Father is quite radical, in
what we have of Jesus prayer life we see that Jesus calls God ‘abba’ which is
the most intimate expression for father in Aramaic Jesus mother tongue. It’s
the first words that an infant would say to their parent, like ‘dada’ in
English. Naomi’s first words were dada, and they were just about her last as
well. She was about 4 months old and I was giving her a bath and she looked up
into my eyes and smiled and said ‘dada’ I was so amazed, Ok shocked, that I
almost dropped her, then and there. Jesus invites us into that intimacy with
God.

Jesus use of the word father has its roots in the Old
Testament and gives us a great understanding of the father heart of God. It
speaks to us of God being the source of all life, we often equate God the Father
with God the creator. The first time the metaphor of God as father is mentioned
in the Old Testament is in the context of God caring for God’s children, in
Exodus 4:22,23, in what follows on from what we looked at in the burning bush
last week, in our detour from the heart of prayer because of another trip tothe heart, that God calls Israel, ‘my son’. That God’s saving action is based
on that fatherly relationship. We have hope because God cares for his Children,
hears and sees their suffering, comes down and acts to see them have liberty
and freedom. It is Jesus who invites us to pray “our Father” and that
invitation must be set in his whole ministry and life and death, as it says in
the beginning of John’s Gospel that the word became flesh that whoever would
believe in him he gave the right to become the sons and daughters of the Most
High God.

Helmit Thiekicke puts it
like this “ Absolutely everything depends on this one fact, that it is Jesus
Christ who teaches us this Prayer. He alone, in his life and his death is the
guarantor that there is a father, that God is nevertheless at work in this
cruel, hard and fatherless world building his kingdom of mercy in the secrecy
of the cross.”

But also this image of God as Father is the basis of our
living out our Christian life as well. In the book of Romans Paul uses the
metaphor of adoption as a way of explaining Christian ethics. In Roman society
people would adopt someone to be their heir, usually this was done by wealthier
people, however not only would this mean that they received the privileges and
benefits of being part of the family, also there was the expectation that the adopted
person would reflect the character of their adopted father and carry on the
family business. In John 20:21 Jesus expressed this by saying Just as the
Father has sent me so I send you’. The compassionate saving God sends us out as
expressions of his care and compassion to the world around us. NT Wright sums
it up by saying “when we call God father, we are called to step out, as
appreciative Children, into a world of pain and darkness’. When we do that we
need to pray, we need the Lord’s Prayer because the father who calls out into
the darkness is also the father who we call out to shine his light into that
darkness.
OK I want to finish up today with some thoughts about
praying Our Father in heaven.”
Firstly it’s the family prayer. It’s our… it’s not my
Father… it is not the one lone voice calling out to the great alone, but rather
it calls us into community, even when we pray it by ourselves. There is a real
sense that as we pray this prayer that we are not only affirming our
relationship with God through his mercy and kindness, but acknowledging that we
belong together. We are brothers and sisters, we are a people. We are
celebrating communion together and in that there is symbolism that we share the
same bread, and drink from the same cup, that we are one.
There is an ethical side to that. When we pray thy kingdom
come there is the expectation that we want God’s righteousness, god’s fatherly
mercy and goodness for all people, when we pray for our daily bread there is
the understanding that we desire that for all God’s people and we need to be
part of that provision, we share what we have. Likewise as we encounter God’s
forgiveness, we forgive those who have wronged us.

Secondly, just because
we call God Father it does not mean that God is male. Feminist Mary Daley
famously said ‘If God is Male, then Male is God’, sadly that has been how some
people have acted down through history. One of the big movements in the Church
in the twentieth century has been to wrestle with the God language we use and for
some that has meant they want to do away with talking about God as Father. It’s
important to acknowledge that God is spirit and we are made male and female in
God’s image. That the scripture is full of male, female and non-gender imagery
of God, all of which we are free to use and explore. The metaphor of Father, is
how Jesus best sums up his relationship and ours with God. Its about
relationship not gender.

Thirdly, we are praying to our Father in heaven. It is
simply coincidence that we are looking at Our Father in heaven on a day when in
New Zealand we are celebrating our earthly fsathers, father’s day, it may of
course be divine coincidence. Some of us wrestle with calling God Father
because of our relationships with our earthly father, we can project that on to
God as father and some people because of their experiences of abuse and neglect
say they can never relate to God as Father. But Knowing God as our heavenly
father I believe can be healing. Remember it is Jesus, who calls God his Father
who is inviting us into that relationship with God as Our Father. I know my Father
loved me but he never told me, he was a good provider but because of what
happened to him in his childhood he was never able to express love physically
or verbally, you know I went through my whole life thinking I wasn’t good
enough for him, it wasn’t till after he died that that I discovered he was
proud of me, he had told his work mates and at his funeral they passed that
titbit onto me. But I’ve found it quite healing to hear God say, and not with
any sense of my having a messianic complex, you are my Son and I love you. It
is as come to know Our Heavenly Father’s love that we are made whole.

Lastly, family legend has it that when Beth says
‘daddy’ in a particular tone that she gets what she wants, Can I say that
despite what others may say that’s not the case. But it is possible to simply
think that when we pray ‘Our Father’ that there is a sense that we can
manipulate a tender hearted God, that God becomes a vending machine , that we
put in the right things and push the right buttons and we get what we want,
whether it’s good for us or not. As JB Phillips says Our God is too Small, we
have a thin view of God, that god is some sort of cosmic credit card. It’s true
like a good father God now what we need even before we ask him, and he can be
trusted to hear and respond to our cries, but as Rowan Williams the arch Bishop
of Canterbury says when you add “hallowed be your name” to Our Father in heaven
you realise that God is beyond manipulation. God is near and tender hearted but
cannot be made a tool for our purposes, to put others down or to make
themselves feel safe. We come to realise
that “when you’re talking about God, this is serious, this is the most wonderful
and frightening reality that we could imagine, more wonderful and frightening
than we could imagine”. Two awesome truths about God combine, God is a tender
hearted Father and awesome beyond all our comprehension.